Because you’ll always be second-guessing your boss

Whenever you’re meeting with your boss, you’re doing the emotional work needed to gauge what she’s thinking, what she’s feeling, how to impress her, how give her what she wants.

She doesn’t need to do any emotional work, because it doesn’t matter what you think, it doesn’t matter what you feel, she doesn’t have to impress you, she can just tell you to do whatever she wants.